I’ve been taking my top off in public. Frequently.
Don’t you dare judge me. If you had a newborn that relied on your body for nourishment every 45 minutes to three hours depending on the day, you’d walk around half-naked amongst strangers at some point, too. And I’m not just whipping ‘em out all over southern California to feed my 7-week-old daughter. The frequency with which I get spit up on my button downs or drop Haaka’s full of breastmilk all over my pants (screams into pillow) requires several outfit changes1 (and pep talks) a day.
When I’m within the safety and purgatory of my own home, I’m dressed for the job. This means I’m usually just wearing various pairs of soft pants and a nursing bra. That’s it. Anything more than that is impractical, so I see no reason to wear a shirt even though I have a neighbor who can sometimes stop by unannounced. That’s a thrill. Anyways, strolling about outside in an outfit that’s basically underwear is typically frowned upon. After a couple weeks …